The LGBTQ community in our country is still struggling - struggling to get their basic human rights, struggling against people's prejudice, and struggling with blatantly being ignored by our own government. They're looked down upon and ridiculed for being the way they are. Hell, even god-men are after their lives telling them that being gay is actually a disease that can be cured. 

While all this continues to go on, individuals in the community are thriving on their own, trying to change people's beliefs and their preconceived notions. But dealing with how to come out to loved ones still remains one of their biggest personal ordeals. 

A recent post by Humans Of Bombay tells the story of a man who finally came out to his parents, loved and lost, and now works towards a better future. 

“I always knew I had different preferences, but throughout my childhood I silenced myself and pretended to be someone else. When my friends at school spoke about girls I felt uncomfortable. When I was sexually attracted to a boy at 14, I tried my best to subdue it. I began to spend more time reading online, wondering if maybe I wasn’t the only one…and I wasn’t! It still took me 3 years to ‘come out’ to my parents— and they were devastated.

Source: Facebook/HumansOfBombay

Over the next few years, we grew apart but I was determined to show them my world and at 21, I made my first gay themed short film, ‘Logging Out’. I won an international award for it, but after watching that movie, the distance between my parents and me completely disappeared. We began to have healthy discussions about LGBT rights and when my relatives started bad mouthing me, I didn't even need to say anything-- my parents defended me the whole way. I’ve organised a number of Gay Pride Parades, and my mother recently walked with a placard that read, ‘I am proud of my Gay Child’! — and that was the best feeling in the world!”

“How have your relationships been so far?”

“When I was 20, I lost my boyfriend in a car accident and that was a really difficult time for me. Since then there have been relationships, but for now I’m focusing on my career and the cause.”

“What’s the dream?”

“In a few years, I see myself marrying a good man in front of my family and friends in the traditional Indian way, hopefully. We’ll adopt children and a stray dog and grow old together…that’s the dream.”

We hope that one day our country and our people are able to embrace everyone regardless of their personal choices.

Cover image: Newscult