We millennials want love but we also want to play it cool. Caught between the hook-up culture and our search for stability in love, we find ourselves in a dilemma the moment we start catching any feelings.

The same thing happened to this guy who had an on-and-off fling with a girl. Unsure about his feelings, he planned on ghosting her but he asked his friend for advice.

His friend’s message became a lesson that he will never forget. And this is the message all of us confused souls need to keep in mind when we meet someone special.

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When there are so many options like Tinder to find love instantly, it’s so easy to take people for granted. Instead of concentrating on what we do have, we start wondering about what we could have and often forget that love isn’t instant. It is a process that takes time. If you find yourself falling for someone, instead of abandoning them, you should stick around and see what the relationship has in store for you.

It’s high time we stop running away from love.