Trust is possibly the most important thing to keep a relationship going. But with the constant social media and interaction, boundaries have become a rather slippery issue.
Every couple has their own ideas of what counts as cheating and what doesn’t, but here are a few things that are perfectly normal, and most definitely should not be seen with suspicion in any relationship.
1. Talking to someone of the opposite gender
People have a life outside relationships and it’s just stupid to think otherwise.
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2. Having great friends of the opposite gender
Frankly, I’d be way more suspicious of a person who has no friends at all. Platonic relationships are an important part of our lives and happiness.
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3. Having a great time with old friends
Being in a relationship does not suddenly erase all other people from a person’s life. Duh!
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4. Having inside jokes and secrets with friends
Platonic relationships can be deep and special bonds in their own ways. It may or may not be the same in a relationship.
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5. Trusting best friends as much (or even more, sometimes) than the partner
Trust is not a limited resource. It’s quite possible to be able to trust more than one person at a time, and to varying degrees. No big deal.
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6. Greeting someone with a smile/compliment/hug
Common courtesy and good behaviour is not the same as flirting. No threat detected!
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7. Enjoying some alone time
Wanting to spend time alone is not the same as wanting to take a break from the relationship.
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8. Prioritising personal goals
We’re all independent adults here. It’s only fair that we’ll look out for ourselves, innit?
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9. Masturbating
Masturbation and sex are totally different ball games, and everyone deserves to enjoy themselves in whatever way they like!
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10. Watching porn
As above, everyone has their preferences. It’s normal and healthy.
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