Chivalry is a word that is thrown about quite a lot. While some say it's dead, others insist on 'opening doors for women' because that's the 'right thing to do'.

A word that originates from the centuries old French word 'chevalier' or a 'man of aristocratic standing', 'chivalry' was essentially a qualification for being a knight during the medieval age. Given the origin, it is hard to imagine the term as being one that transcends the boundaries of gender.

Don't get us wrong, we aren't saying that that wouldn't be ideal. But the real question is, does the youth think chivalry works from both man to woman and woman to man?

So we asked some young Indians to define chivalry, and interestingly, they had very different things to say. Here are our top 20.

Chivalry is...

1. "For men, the basic chivalrous act of opening the door for a woman. For women, not cutting queues just because you are a woman." - Taruna Gandhi

Source: Alongquincollege.com

2. "Following a personal code of honour." - Anujeet Datta Majumdar

Source: Kutullo.com

3. "When a man stands up for a woman being teased on the streets." - Ashima Jain

Source: Fastcompany.net

4. "The seed of misogyny." - Robi Banerjee

Source: Ientry.com

5. "Consideration for someone else before thinking about your own self. Applicable to both men and women." - Shilpi Ganguly

Source: Webmd.com

6. "Realising equal isn't identical, and that respect trumps all. Living within a certain structure." - Agnibesh Das

Source: Deviantart.net

7. "Sexist. I'm sure each and every woman is capable of opening a car door for herself." - Tania Goklany

Source: Blogspot

8. "To respect or compliment with no expectations." - Vipin Kc

Source: LinkedIn

9. "Considering women (any woman) before your egoistic self. Most of the time I associate it with manners." - Mehreen Shaikh

Source: HC TV News

10. "Dead." - Pranav Joshi

Source: Dangerandplaycom

11. "Misconstrued by (some) men, as of today, to feel superior in some trivial ways and by (some) women to make a case for feminism." - Vishakha Saxena

Source: Mirrorfect.in

12. "Giving the respect the other needs. Extends both ways. Even to the same gender." - Sahil Bhalla

Source: Blogspot

13. "For a knight to not abduct, rape and kill women at their will, especially lower class women, because higher class European men in the Middle Ages were basically entitled 'dipshits', so any man extending courtesy to ALL women was so groundbreaking and honourable." - Laboni Bhattacharya

Source: Chronicle.su

14. "Gentlemanly behavior." - Dipayan Sinha

Source: The Gentleman's Journal

15. "When you're genuinely trying to help, without patronising." - Vaishnavi Iyer

Source: Be-boosted.org

16. "The way we treat our elders in Indian society with ji haan, ji papaji, etc." - Vishnu Narayan

Source: Dainik Bhaskar

17. "A well-crafted system of unnecessary gestures that apparently concede superiority in a show of humility, while actually reinforcing gendered power equations." - Rituparna Sengupta

Source: Chronicle.co.zw

18. "Knights." - Sandip Bardhan

Source: Magpie and Mutton Fly

19. "Giving respect to a person because of that person's gender even if that person does not respect you. Example: Opening a door for your wife who asks for alimony and your property when she slept with your best friend." - Madhav Mohan Menon

Source: Huffington Post

20. "Inequality." - Priya Dharmavarapu

Source: Mirror.co.uk

Most of the responses point to one thing -- that there's hope.

Two clear answers emerge here. One, that chivalry no longer exists/should no longer exist. Two, if it does exist, it extends both ways.

What do you think chivalry is? Write in.