So, you’ve been seeing each other for a while. You get along like house on fire. And there’s fire under the sheets, too (pun intended). It all seems perfect, and lately you’ve been considering taking things a step further. But wait! Before you commit to that dream-come-true-relationship, make sure you’ve had a shopping date with your partner.
“Cinderella is proof that a new pair of shoes can change your life.” – Anonymous
Believe it or not, buying a new pair of shoes CAN change your life. Okay well, maybe not your life, but certainly your relationship. Here’s why:
1. Because you need to figure out how much time is acceptable to spend in a shop.
You might think you need at least an hour to make sure you didn’t miss out on a piece of treasure, while your partner might scan everything with an eagle’s eye and hate the idea of spending more than five minutes at one shop.
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2. You may want to try on everything before you make a purchase, while your partner might just pick up what they like without caring too much about the perfect fit.
Can you handle that?
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3. It’s a foolproof way of finding out if your (potential) boyfriend / girlfriend will try to dictate what you wear.
And that’s where you draw the line.
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4. And of course, if their fashion sense is up to the mark.
Because it is crucial that they know what looks good on them.
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5. People either hate window shopping or love it and for your relationship to last, it is imperative that both of you are on the same page.
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6. If you can’t agree on a colour scheme for the house, there’s simply no point taking your relationship further.
And the most non-threatening way to figure this out is to casually browse through a home furnishing store.
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7. The best relationships are those in which one is a spender while the other saves. A shopping date will show you if you can strike the perfect balance.
You are a team.
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8. But if the one who saves always expects the other to foot the bill, that ain’t gonna fly!
There’s always a limit to buying “presents.”
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9. It will help you build an inventory of presents for them that they will actually like.
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10. In all likelihood, you will end up buying something that is for the both of you. And just like that, a shopping date will take your relationship to the next level.
Or maybe it will just become another thing to fight about. Either way, this co-owned object will help you determine the fate of your relationship.
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Are you ready to find out the fate of your relationship?
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