All over the world, men and masturbation go hand-in-hand!
When their hands aren’t doing other things, men are found keeping busy with their hands. Day after day, night after night, no man can ever have enough of masturbation.
Playing with the penis results in a pleasure that can’t be described in words.
But what if I told you that this penis-play might just wreak havoc with your sex life?
Believe it or not, masturbation has come out as one of the major causes for Erectile Dysfunction (ED) among young men of today.
Hard feelings, anyone?
Changing times and technology have made it easier for men to masturbate.
Unlike the good, old 90s when access to porn was flooded with hassles, now, things are faster. Everyone has a smartphone with a fast-streaming internet and there are millions of sites offering all kinds of pornographic content at the click of a button.
People are doing it in the morning, taking jerk-off breaks at work, using public bathrooms in malls and indulging in it at night, without any trouble whatsoever.
Ever since the hormones kick-in for any and every male, there’s enough and more porn to get him started. While this may have made things easier, it’s also given rise to a whole lot of boner-killers, literally.
Because let’s face it: porn is unlike anything that happens in actual, penetrative sex!
With masturbation, you don’t need to be fully hard!
If you’ve ever wondered why every Tom & Harry is busy with their Dick, now you have the answer.
Contrary to popular opinion, you can masturbate even with a slightly-placid penis too. The pleasure is pretty much the same and you can still ejaculate, making it a convenient exercise especially during loo-breaks at work.
Unfortunately, when having sex with a woman, getting hard is a necessity. Unlike your hand, a vagina isn’t too kind when you’re all soft!
But for men who’ve been regularly masturbating watching porn, they aren’t used to having complete erections. Therefore, when it comes to actual performing, they fall a few inches short!
When you’re watching porn, your idea of real-life bodies is pretty skewed!
Well-endowed with curves in all the right places and not an inch of extra flab or stretch marks, the women in porn are perfection-personified. However, they aren’t what real women look like.
Used to looking at them, men are often desensitized to real-women figures and therefore, find themselves less attracted. And that results in erectile issues in bed.
Before they know, they’re idea of ‘hot’ is some cosmetic surgery-enhanced model who’s far different from their girlfriend/wife.
Most importantly, porn makes sex look like a walk in the clouds!
He puts it in, she starts moaning and multiple thrusts later, they’re both climaxing like nobody’s business. Sadly, sex in actual life is NOTHING like that!
To begin with, you can’t just put it in. What about the foreplay? Locking lips, tangled tongues, grinding hips, caressing hands, there’s so much more that you won’t see in a porn flick!
And even after it is in, it’s not like a woman starts moaning in a second. For what it’s worth, a man has to work real hard for a woman to reach her climax. It isn’t just about some mindless thrusting, or whatever else that porn likes to show.
Basically, in porn, sex always happens very easily.
Everybody is having a great time and nobody wants you to do things differently or do them any better. And this gives men a completely wrong about sex!
Unlike the women in porn, in real life, women have emotions, needs and desires. They aren’t sexual objects looking at giving you heightened pleasure without receiving anything in return.
While there isn’t anything wrong with watching porn per se, regular viewing, sometimes two-three times a day, can get your mind completely tuned out of real-life sexual experiences.
For the generation of today, porn has become a lifestyle choice.
Sitting in cabs, lazing in bed or going for holidays, we’re on it and at it. It doesn’t take time and doesn’t cost a dime so, why not, right?
But if a whole generation is fast getting addicted to an unreal fantasy, losing out on the real, more substantial pleasure then there’s something to worry about.
Masturbation is meant as a substitute for sex. And porn is an escape. It isn’t meant to define your sexual experience.