The death of a relationship with someone you love dearly is one of the most desolating agonies a person can experience. If you feel like there’s no longer that spark in your dynamic, chances are there isn’t. You can try to revive it, but once it’s gone, it’s gone for good. The longer you wait to rip the bandaid, the more it will hurt.

These Redditors reveal the telltale signs that made them realise their relationship was done for good:

If this sounds like your relationship with your partner, I think you know what to do.