This year, we’ve talked about beige flags, pink flags and, of course, red flags in relationships. But what about healthy relationships? What effect do healthy, loving relationships have on us? Because it’s definitely worth being grateful for. What some of the best people we’ve met and been with have done for us is a blessing in how they change us for the better.

That’s why this Twitter thread, started by @brujabitchh, where people have shared what healthy relationships have taught them, is so wonderful to read through.

And here’s how people have contributed to the conversation:

Yes, toxic and troublesome relationships leave us torn but don’t lose hope, for there are plenty of people you haven’t met yet and are willing to love you for who you are.