If you have ever used a dating app, you know how unpredictable things can be on these platforms.
Well, half of the fun of using them lies there but the transition from uncertain to shady or even downright creepy is very, very fast.
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So when someone says they want to give you a ‘full disclosure’ before meeting, it’s natural for your mind to expect the worst. The case was no different for this Twitter user @CocktailAmma.
She took to Twitter to share the entire story.
Yesterday I started chatting with a lovely looking man on a dating app. We hit it off great & decided to exchange numbers. Before doing that he wanted to give me a full disclosure. I immediately thought he’s married & this is a waste of my time. The next few messages he sent 💔
— ଫୁଲେଇ ଝିଅ 🎈 (@CocktailAmma) March 21, 2018
But, as it turned out, he wasn’t married. The reason was heartbreaking, and something that requires us to reflect on our behaviour as a society.
In 2007-08 he met with a severe car accident because of which he was badly injured. Shattered bones, punctured lungs and a verdict by the best doctors that he wouldn’t be able to walk. He started walking in three months. He was featured in various publications.
— ଫୁଲେଇ ଝିଅ 🎈 (@CocktailAmma) March 21, 2018
While he was telling me all this I did not understand what was he getting at. All of this did not seem like a problem to me. Then he said he has a limp. And he would understand if I didn’t want to pursue this. A limp is what it takes apparently!
— ଫୁଲେଇ ଝିଅ 🎈 (@CocktailAmma) March 21, 2018
And after this, she said something that is a lesson in acceptance for all of us. She said that despite the fact that he is perfect in every sense, the society found a way to make him feel he’s lacking something because he has a physical disability.
This lovely man, whose story is so inspirational, treks whenever he gets a chance. He is devoted to his family & friends. He is opinionated and respectful. But we have managed to make him conscious of what he is “lacking”.
— ଫୁଲେଇ ଝିଅ 🎈 (@CocktailAmma) March 21, 2018
And did they meet? They sure did.
How do I know all of this? Because I met him & we spoke till late into the night. And now I’m late for work. Have a nice day!
— ଫୁଲେଇ ଝିଅ 🎈 (@CocktailAmma) March 21, 2018
Looks and personality are the initial most things that we notice in people, especially while using dating sites. But this woman set an example in acceptance by seeing beyond it and giving importance to things that actually matter.
As soon as she put the tweets out, people started reacting to her story and are hoping they both hit it off.
This is such a sweet story! Also, you are awesome (as I’m sure he is too!)
— #SwagMeraDesi (@GuptRogue) March 21, 2018
All the best to your sweet love story! 🎈🎈🎈
— #SwagMeraDesi (@GuptRogue) March 21, 2018
When is the second date?!?!? We need to know!!!
— Ms. Desai (@missdesai) March 21, 2018
Yeah definitely.. he should be very proud of himself ! That’s a Bollywood movie right there!
— Mrinali Kaul (@mrinali89) March 21, 2018
These two sound like great people, and just like everyone else we also hope this ends on a good note.